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Communication starts with listening. You try to remember again, when you provide the time, attention, ears, and your mind for a family member? If you want to be heard, start by listening to other people. Do not forget also the following things when you want to start communicating with family members.

Consistent
If you are not consistent with your words, your spouse and your child will be hard to believe in you. Lack of response will give them a chance to rule and take over "the seat of leadership" to terrorize you.

Talk about your true intentions
Children must know that they can trust your speech. How? Because you always do what you say. They need a promise from you, and they await the application of these promises. Your spouse needs to know that he can rely on you.

Teach your baby how to communicate
Teach your child to use his own words about his feelings, not with a whimper, or act annoying. You also need to set an example to them. For example, say that you will be very proud of him if he could say what he desire with words, not with a whimper. Do not forget to say the words that symbolize your love for them.

Do not label your child
Do not ever give stamp of who your child. Do not come out of your mouth will be who and how he was. For example, "Andi was a shy child" or "Andy is very good at sports but bad at math". Let him grow as it is, let him do what he likes. Embrace it and any lack of excess yanga in him.

Parallel
When children are feeling upset, sad, or unhappy, try to talk to him. Come, try to be my level with his eyes. A little touch of the hand can also help calm. If he turned his face from you, try to hold dahunya, and slowly confronted face to face you. Let him know that you are close and can he trust to lean on, and that you can be friends.

Talk with a unanimous voice
Your child should be able to know that he can trust you. That way, he will want to follow your commands so that he would discipline. He also needs the affirmation that you love her. Kontrollah your frustration.

Repeat the words of the little
Repeating what he said made him know that you understand what he has in mind and that he felt. Do not interrupt when he was told. Let him talk as language. Occasionally, when he stammered and did not know what word to use, you can help by suggesting a word that fits the event. Summarize the results of the heart flow.

Show pleasure
The smiles, hugs, humor, whatever your way to show that you feel good, show me. Your child will express themselves more freely if you are more calm and open.

Teach your child to practice breath
When he was holding back anger and tears, there will be times when he had trouble breathing, teach him to train his breath. Take also the time for time-out if he or you are very angry and difficult to control emotions. Take a moment to compose himself. Do not talk when you're emotional. Nothing good can be gained by talking with a bad temper.