Saturday, November 21, 2009


For Sumarni Pinuji Lestari (54), living with someone other than their own biological children even enrich thought. "I became more patient and compassionate," says Dance, Sumarni friendly greeting. At home his parents in Ngadinegaran heritage, Yogyakarta, Dance accommodate three nephews.

Two of his nephews, Pundra (16) and Noval (11), joined with dance after their father died, while her mother was still living in Lampung. In Yogya, Pundra go to school in high school class I, whereas class VI Noval enter primary school.

Dance try acting as surrogate mother even before he had rarely met a couple of her niece. Done selling juice at the Gadjah Mada University campus at around 16:00, he took time to accompany Pundra and Noval study at home.

Dance also educate children to live independently brother. They share the task of cleaning the house, washing his own clothes, and wash the dishes done eating. "It happens at their house also has taught care of business by her mother's house. So, I do not need to be too difficult to govern them, "said Dance.

To finance the three nephews, Dance relied money selling juice and homestay fee. Dance family happened to open a boarding house business together.

Dance the other brother helped finance his niece's third purpose. For school fees, Dance also assisted his brothers the others.

According to Seto as a psychologist, mental ngenger people can forge stronger and not easily give up, but it relies on basic education from parents.

"If a parent early is always encouraging and motivating, the child will grow up with high confidence. Whatever the circumstances, "Seto said.

Her children who were born in the life of an established, Seto teach them not to rely on property to live with their parents. Seto also involves three children in activities that are charitable. "To remind the children that they are grateful with what they have," said Seto.

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